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# [Can I Network?](https://engineeringlynn.hashnode.dev/can-i-network?utm_source=hashnode&utm_medium=feed)

How can you take the plunge when the water seems so cold?

Feb 20, 2022 · 6 min read · engineeringlynn.hashnode.dev  
Updated Mar 13, 2022  
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-   [#networking](https://hashnode.com/tag/networking)
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-   [#social-media](https://hashnode.com/tag/social-media)
-   [#software-development](https://hashnode.com/tag/software-development)

## Written by

[Sylvia F.](https://hashnode.com/@EngineeringLynn)

@EngineeringLynn

  
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Front-end Software Engineer

I am a self-taught developer with a love for writing, reading, and sharing my journey with my fellow community. ❤️

## Responses 5

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[Victory Martins](https://hashnode.com/@VictoryM)

[Dec 16, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/639cb7c1ca71d26d2524f8a1)

This is a great read, thank you Slyvia. The fact that I am not alone in this is a great comfort

[Timo Heman](https://hashnode.com/@timotech)

[Feb 26, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/621a800e085330c3f79c19c8)

Thank you so much for writing this Sylvia. I see myself through your words because I struggle a lot with networking. My tongue gets tied when I try to speak or I feel like I'm not smart enough to join the conversation in a space. But I believe it's possible and I'd like to give myself the opportunity to try. I know/hope I can do it🤭

[Sylvia F.](https://hashnode.com/@EngineeringLynn)

[Feb 26, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/621a800e085330c3f79c19c8#reply-621a9a9a45bf7fc41cc9c8a0)

Thank you so much! Networking is a skill that takes time to get used to. I totally believe that everyone has got this!

[Shashi Lo](https://hashnode.com/@shashilo)

[Feb 20, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/62124e76c6ed3906e81c641a)

Since your first Twitter Space, I've seen you grow so much! You're more active, you speak out, and you're making great connections. It's so important to have a safe way to introduce you to something you're not comfortable with. I'm happy that things are working out for you. Great things are coming your way!

[Sylvia F.](https://hashnode.com/@EngineeringLynn)

[Feb 20, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/62124e76c6ed3906e81c641a#reply-6212777ee2db563535e3a0e1)

Thank you so much! I appreciate it immensely. You're and the tech community help push me to continue my best! 🥰

[Debbie Dann](https://hashnode.com/@debbiedann)

[Feb 20, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/62124d4ae2db563535e39a87)

This was a great read, Sylvia. My first (and only) Twitter space was exactly the same; my hands trembled and I walked around while talking, the notes I'd made beforehand were pretty useless so I had to make it up on the spot which I'm not great at. I need to find a friendly safe space to practise.

[Sylvia F.](https://hashnode.com/@EngineeringLynn)

[Feb 20, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/62124d4ae2db563535e39a87#reply-62127823e2db563535e3a0f3)

It was the same for me. I had notes but I forget I'm dyslexic, haha. In moments like that the notes become almost unusable. I think a safe twitter space for people who are anxious about speaking is much needed. I heard your space and thought you were wonderful. The hand raising bit helped me so much, allowing people the choice to speak is super helpful.

[//Lisa Sinn](https://hashnode.com/@LisaComments)

[Feb 20, 2022](https://hashnode.com/posts/can-i-network/62119974c6ed3906e81c3760/comment/6211b018e2db563535e36e31)

I love this! I'm hoping to dip my toes into networking as well. My only fear is saying something "stupid".