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# [The Subtle Art of Asking the Second Question](https://remelehane.dev/the-subtle-art-of-asking-the-second-question?utm_source=hashnode&utm_medium=feed)

In 1:1s, whether with my reports or on the rare occasion with my own lead, I’ve noticed something: the safe answer. You know the one. It’s in response to “How are you doing?” It’s polite. Acceptable. Technically honest — yet designed to sidestep the ...

Aug 19, 2025 · 2 min read · remelehane.dev  
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