--- title: "Discussion on \"The Ultimate Networking Guide for Programmers\" | Hashnode" description: "Discussion on \"The Ultimate Networking Guide for Programmers\". —and no, this isn't about IP addresses. It's about how do we build and maintain genuine connections! Let's crack the code to networking!" url: "https://hashnode.com/posts/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers/6728b158494632fad34a4581" --- [Feed](https://hashnode.com/feed) / Discussion # [The Ultimate Networking Guide for Programmers](https://blog.lo-victoria.com/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers?utm_source=hashnode&utm_medium=feed) —and no, this isn't about IP addresses. It's about how do we build and maintain genuine connections! Let's crack the code to networking! Nov 4, 2024 · 13 min read · blog.lo-victoria.com Read the article - [#networking](https://hashnode.com/tag/networking) - [#programmer](https://hashnode.com/tag/programmer) ## Written by [Victoria Lo](https://hashnode.com/@victoria) @victoria · Singapore [View profile](https://hashnode.com/@victoria) A nerd in books, tea, games and software. I'm a solutions engineer lead, GitHub Star, Director of WomenDevsSG, and co founder of ragTech. I work at the intersection of tech, systems, and leadership, and this blog is where I share my journey through all three. Expect honest reflections, real experiences, and thoughts that are still forming rather than polished career advice. ## Responses 2 Markdown supported · ⌘↵ to post [Sujit Mohanty](https://hashnode.com/@sujitmohanty) [Jan 9, 2025](https://hashnode.com/posts/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers/6728b158494632fad34a4581/comment/677f735b875ca0dcdaaaacfe) This article is an absolute masterpiece! Thank You so much Victoria and wishing you a very happy new year! [Livian Bern](https://hashnode.com/@alexseen) [Nov 11, 2024](https://hashnode.com/posts/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers/6728b158494632fad34a4581/comment/6732559a5c8b231da62dcaf7) Sometimes, it’s nice to try something new online, and [Vip Casino](https://vipcasino-pro.com/) was a great find for me. The site’s layout is really straightforward, so I could jump into games without any confusion. For Canadian players, they’ve got some fantastic bonuses, including welcome offers and free spins that help you get more out of the experience. The variety of games keeps things fresh, and it’s turned into a nice way to relax after a busy day. I’d definitely recommend it if you’re looking for a fun gaming option. [Favourite Jome](https://hashnode.com/@Favourite) [Nov 4, 2024](https://hashnode.com/posts/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers/6728b158494632fad34a4581/comment/6728f3e21ebe535cfd06a8da) I have always loved to read your masterpieces, such as this. Thank you for sharing this well thoughtful guide. I resonate with the section on introducing oneself, as with other points, and I love how Natasha put it: Expansive Labels. I'd definitely watch the video soon. From the book I'm currently reading, _How to Win Friends and Influence People_ by Dale Carnegie, one of my take away so far is using the knowledge that people would generally prefer talking about themself, so getting to ask the right questions can make others reveal more than they would usually. I see you highlighted a similar point. However, I have a question I'd like your input. So lately, I have been consuming some knowledge on habits, lifestyle, and communication through books, but applying and executing the principles from these books is a different story; what do you think is the best approach to apply what I've read consciously? [Victoria Lo](https://hashnode.com/@victoria) [Nov 5, 2024](https://hashnode.com/posts/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers/6728b158494632fad34a4581/comment/6728f3e21ebe535cfd06a8da#reply-67298878535ac9c1cb0e9c18) Thanks for the thoughtful and insightful comment [Favourite Jome](https://hashnode.com/@Favourite)! I love that you shared about Dale Carnegie's book because it is also one of the most inspirational books I've read! I have read a lot of books on habits and communication too. To me it's not about immediately changing yourself as suggested from these books, but about immediately applying these suggestions to change yourself slowly (for the better ofc). I would take a few tips that I can apply immediately from the book and get used to it. For example, Dale Carnegie mentioned about using people's names more. So every time I thanked someone in my team, instead of typing "Thank you", I typed "Thank you, XXX". It's a promise I made to myself. Gradually, this formed into a habit. Now, I'm ready to apply another tip and the cycle repeats. It takes time to change yourself, so don't be overwhelmed and try to change a lot at once. Everything can be done in baby steps :) [Favourite Jome](https://hashnode.com/@Favourite) [Nov 5, 2024](https://hashnode.com/posts/the-ultimate-networking-guide-for-programmers/6728b158494632fad34a4581/comment/6728f3e21ebe535cfd06a8da#reply-6729da89fc4779380efa58d6) That's good advice [Victoria Lo](https://hashnode.com/@victoria). I'll make sure to remember that. Bady steps every day will compound to a new self 😊