aditagar.hashnode.devThe Hedge ChangesAs children, we’re trained to hedge with skill. School and college reward a very specific behaviour: say no to distractions, say no to people, sometimes even say no to family, and focus entirely on studying. The message is consistent and logical: you...Jan 12·2 min read
aditagar.hashnode.devBorrowed Glasses Don’t FitOne of the quietest ways people give up their agency is by inheriting opinions. Not because those opinions are malicious. Most of them aren’t. They’re usually well-intentioned shortcuts: “This team isn’t great.” “That company is past its prime.” “Thi...Jan 10·3 min read
