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Yep, when you respond to a Tweet with someone tagged, if you don't manually un-select them, you mention the author of the tweet and everyone tagged in it. People also get quote tweet notifications. Yeah, I am happy to talk to imperfect people and help break the stigma. I also get a lot of comments along the lines of "You should include x. You should write it this way." I am baffled when people get really upset when I don't automatically agree with them even though I can only explain my reasoning or not respond.
Hey Jorge, You also mentioned me 2 or 3 times on Twitter. Let me clarify my points: I'm dubious because there's no corroborating evidence other than Dr. Hallowell's experience. I take Gabor Maté and Russell Barkley's statements with the same grain of salt. I'm not going to give something "official" for the "everyone is a little ADHD" people to use. I don't think the people who struggle to accept ADHD are going to see "oh there's ADT, so ADHD is real." I think it'll be more confusion/fuel to deny ADHD is real. This series is much more popular on another site and I'm having to hide more egregious comments than just the "I don't have ADHD but" ones here. Unfortunately, ice water man proves that point. Once I started sending him research, he just started outright stating ADHD could be solved easily. Few people are literate in psychological research. I don't want to write about it. If you want to write about it, please do. I disagree. After the Twitter mentions, I saw both of your comments included critique and more why aren't you writing about ADT, so I attempted to explain myself. People have a tendency to assume when I don't agree with them and present facts for my argument that I am upset and then they get upset. I am not upset nor am I looking for only "great post!" comments. I have gotten a lot of good discussion in blog post comments here and elsewhere. Some great coping strategies have been shared in the comments on this series, for sure.
Hey Jorge, I tried to use words like "may" and "can" help, because as you know, things that will work for you will change and what may work for one person with ADHD will not work for another. This is the 4th or 5th notification I've gotten from you about ADT, so I will address it. I don't think it belongs in this conversation for a few reasons. I haven't been able to find corroborating research beyond Dr. Hallowell's paper. If you have research papers with studies of people with ADT, I'd love to see them. It seems to be a symptom of living in our current environment with technology and sounds a lot like burn out, which is a broader discussion. From my research, it looks like ADT comes and goes, only mirrors a few symptoms of ADHD, and as you have said, there is a solution. This means it is significantly different from ADHD which is chronic and does not have a simple solution. As you said in another comment, ADHD can be hard for people to grasp. I've already gotten plenty of comments like "taking an ice bath every morning will cure your ADHD." Adding in another acronym that is not a diagnosis will muddy the waters. There has been enough pain in the comments I've received from stigma and feeling alone that I am happy to center ADHD only in my writing in this series. I don't disagree, but there are some people who prefer <diagnosis> people and some people who prefer people with <diagnosis>. I know it's a debate in the Autistic community especially. I tried to mix it up as much as possible. In a perfect world, we wouldn't need these labels and could move away from diagnosis styles like the DSM, but right now it really helps us relate to each other. My research was in mental health stigma as it affects seeking help, so I'm always going to discuss where I'm at in my mental health journey, as imperfect as it may be. ADT, labels, the DSM, the sad state of the U.S. mental healthcare system, the wrongs mental health professionals have committed and are committing, the lack of training mental health professionals get on ADHD, the social model of disability vs the medical model of disability, how difficult it is to get a proper diagnosis, lack of research on psychiatric medication being prescribed to patients long term, and many other aspects of mental health in the U.S. would all make great topics for blog posts.
Hey Jorge, I think many neurotypicals often suffer from a lot of the same problems as us. I know you're probably coming from a good place and trying to normalize these challenges, but "everyone is a little ADHD" is a problematic view I've been getting in multiple comments. I've found the neurotypical people may be having trouble understanding, but anyone with ADHD has been feeling seen. I've been doing my best to keep these articles focused on people with ADHD.
I was a big fan of using a legal pad for my work notes until I bought my Supernote. I've been Bullet Journaling for 5 or 6 years now. I've only been using Notion for a few months, and my personal to do list lives there now... with many other lists in varying states of use. Wojciech S. Gac recommends Org-mode , and I know a lot of people love Obsidian and other Markdown note taking tools.